Why this exists
We moved in together the way most people do — gradually, without a single conversation about what would happen to the flat, the savings, or the sofa if things ever went wrong. It wasn't until a friend went through a difficult, drawn-out separation that we realised how little either of us actually knew about our own legal position. We assumed "common law marriage" meant something. It doesn't.
We looked for something simple to help us keep track of who'd paid for what, and to understand where we'd stand if things ever changed. What we found was either dense legal guidance written for solicitors, or nothing at all. So we built the thing we wished existed.
What we believe
Clarity beats conflict. Most disagreements between separating partners come from not knowing the facts, not from bad faith. A clear record helps you have a fair conversation instead of a guessing game.
You shouldn't need a solicitor to understand your own situation. Our tools won't replace one when you genuinely need one — but you should be able to get your bearings first, for free.
Your data is yours. Everything stays in your browser unless you actively choose to share or export it. We don't want your data; we want the tool to be useful.
Where our information comes from
The legal content on this site is written in plain English based on publicly available guidance, including:
- UK legislation, including the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996
- Guidance published by GOV.UK and the Child Maintenance Service
- Citizens Advice and the Law Society's public-facing family law guidance
We review and update this content as the law changes, including the cohabitation law reform consultation expected in 2026. If you spot something out of date, please tell us — see below.
What we're not
We're not solicitors, and nothing on this site is legal advice. Our tools are built to help you understand your general position and keep good records — not to replace a conversation with a qualified family law solicitor, especially once a real dispute is on the table.
Spotted something wrong, or have a suggestion?
We'd genuinely like to hear it — hello@tallytogether.org